Appropriate Words

To make an apt answer is a joy to a man, and a word in season, how good it is!

 

Proverbs 15:23

 

 

 

For most, we generally give due attention to our dress. When invited to a party, dinner, or event, we take appropriate measures to ensure we are wearing proper attire. We would never attend a formal event in our running wear, or waltz into a pool party in formal wear.

 

However, we are not always nearly so careful with our words.

 

We don't always stop to consider whether or not they "fit the occasion." And yet, unlike our dress, words are of the greatest significance—death and life are in the power of the tongue (See Proverbs 18:21).

 

And all too often we play the fool.

 

Instead, we must consider the person to whom we are speaking. And we must choose the precise words that would serve them in that particular conversation. Proverbs 18:13 says, If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame.

 

We can look to 1 Thessalonians 5:14 as the "dress code" for our words. It tells us what words are appropriate for what occasion: And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.

 

So let's ask ourselves:

 

Does someone need to be admonished or forgiven?

 

Does someone need to be warned or comforted?

 

Does someone need to be counseled or encouraged?

 

We take more then enough time to dress appropriately for our own reputation, so why not take time when we speak—to speak appropriately. When we do we bring glory to God and bless those who hear.